You are your own master. We spend so much of our time waiting to be loved, hoping love will find us, searching, and yearning for that special love, feeling empty and lost without it. Unfortunately, that’s not how life usually works. You will draw exactly what you create in life and what you believe you are worthy of.
So loving yourself can create love in your life. So, be confident, love yourself and discover the real you. We have to learn to be our own best friends, because we fall too easily into the trap of being our own worst enemies.
Confidence is the preparation; other things are just beyond our control.People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within. Once you love yourself, you will find your life a beautiful game to play with. Love yourself, and try to love others. You’re never as good as everyone tells you when you win, and you’re never as bad as they say when you lose.
You can’t grab the fruit from the tree by failing to climb it. There comes a time when our faith, our values, our patience, our compassion, our ability to persist are all pushed to the limits and beyond. Some people use such tests as opportunities to become better people; others allow these experiences of life to destroy them.
Everything is possible if we love ourselves as this small reference indicates. Once there was a blind girl who decided to take part in a race. Her teacher asked her how she could compete
with other participants who could see. The teacher was really proud when she replied that she just needed little more effort than others in that race and she was confident that she could stand first in that race. And, she topped. So, believe in yourself, and you can win the world.
Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong. The best way to gain self-confidence is to do what you are afraid to do. Take it easy on yourself. In this existence, mistakes will be made. That’s what makes us stronger to face new challenges. By overcoming certain obstacles we are equipping ourselves for what may come next. So, love yourself and be the real ruler of yourself.